:: My Birthday!! :: A Special Gift From A Friend ::

Me and my friend, we had coffee yesterday. This is his gift to me for my birthday. Its amazing how a simple coffee session could be so inspiring.

The meeting was arranged by Allah, I'm sure. This is why.

:: 5 Tips Intimewa untuk Isteri - by Ustaz Kazim ::

Haa.. yang ni untuk para isteri pulak.. idea2 basic sebenarnya tapi sangat powerful dan sering dilupakan apabila terlampau sibuk dengan tugas harian. I love ustaz Kazim!

Tips untuk Isteri

:: 5 Tip Istimewa untuk Suami - By Ustaz Kazim ::

I love ustaz Kazim! Saya suka ustaz Kazim! hehe.. Anyway, I heard people are now speculating things behind my back.. due to my recent posts.. wahh concern juga orang2 diluar sana ya.. thanks peeps.. Its nice to know you care.. Keep on speculating.. If you were to ask me, I would say "NO COMMENT" ala celebrity.. hehe


Take care!



Isteri adalah anugerah dan nikmat istimewa yang diberikan oleh Allah untuk lelaki. Kebanyakan kita apabila bercinta amat romantik namun apabila sudah berkahwin, sifat romantic tersebut semakin padam dan hampir lenyap. Semaikan semula perasaan cinta anda agar hidup suami isteri bertambah dengan nikmat dan kebahagiaan.

:: Single Parenting ::

by: MUNIRA LEKOVIC EZZELDINE 

Stay strong single mommies and daddies.. Allah is with you!

Parenting is a tough job, but single parenting is an even tougher challenge, as one parent tries to fulfill the roles of both a mother and a father to their child.  Single parenting is highly demanding physically, emotionally and financially.   There can be numerous reasons and circumstances for single parenting, such as divorce, a spouse working abroad, a child born out of wedlock, or even the illness or death of a parent. Sadly, the Muslim community often alienates and ostracizes single parents and is often selective regarding which single parent “deserves” compassion,

:: My Wife Is Always Angry ::

by: WEBBCOUNSELORS 

MasyaAllah beautiful answer! Read on peeps..

Question:

My wife and I are newly married, and I feel she is always angry with me.  During the planning of the wedding, I thought her moodiness was due to the stress of the wedding. However, her frustration has continued into our marriage. The smallest of things that I say or do, which in my mind appear to be innocent enough, make her angry to the point that she refuses to speak to me. 

:: It's Too Late! ::

By Fauzia Majid

How often in our lives do we use the phrase “it’s too late”? It’s too late to forgive, it’s too late to repent, it’s too late to make things better again, it’s too late to apologize, and the list continues. Is it really too late though? Perhaps not.

The only time that this infamous phrase is legitimate is after our last breath, after death has overtaken us. It’s not too late to apologize to someone. It’s not too late to ask Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala (exalted is He) to forgive me for all the sins I have committed, for every act of

:: Ahh.. How True.. ::

Positive quotes always inspire me.. That is why I start my day everyday with hadiths and positive quotes.... Ahhh.. Life is beautiful!

:: Allah Yang Bagi Rezeki, Bukan Company ::

Salam beautiful people of the universe!

A while ago, when I was in my darkest time of my life, when I just lost a relationship and a job on the same day, I almost lost myself. I withdrew from the world. I turned my phone off, I refused even get out of the bed. I hit rock bottom.

:: Wasiat Rasulullah s.a.w. Kepada Saidina Ali r.a. ::

Ali bin Abi Thalib r.a. berkata, 
"Rasulullah saw berwasiat kepadaku dengan sabda Baginda":

:: Kewajipan Lelaki Melindungi Wanita ::

Lelaki disyaratkan melindungi wanita, hindari kekerasan. Dalam institusi perkahwinan, lelaki ialah ketua keluarga sesuai dengan fitrah kejadiannya yang lebih gagah dan beberapa kelebihan lain berbanding wanita. Tanggungjawab lelaki sebagai ketua (pemimpin) kepada perempuan ditegaskan oleh Allah melalui firman-Nya bermaksud:

"Lelaki ialah pemimpin bagi perempuan oleh kerana Allah melebihkan sebahagian mereka (lelaki) atas sebahagian yang lain (perempuan), dan kerana lelaki selepas menafkahkan sebahagian daripada harta mereka." (Surah an-Nisa, ayat 34)

Islam mensyaratkan lelaki sentiasa menjadi pelindung dan berbuat baik terhadap wanita. Sebagai pemimpin, lelaki dipertanggungjawabkan menjaga keselamatan, kebajikan dan menyediakan keperluan hidup untuk isteri dan anak mereka. Islam melarang sama sekali kekerasan dalam rumah tangga. Rasulullah memberi ingatan dengan sabda bermaksud:

"Mengapa ada lelaki di kalangan kamu yang suka memukul isterinya seperti memukul seorang hamba, padahal dia akan menyetubuhi isterinya itu pada hari lain." (Hadis riwayat Ahmad).

:: Why People Leave Each Other? ::

(original post: http://myhadithoftheday.com/inspiration/why-do-people-have-to-leave-each-other/)

When I was 17 years old, I had a dream. I dreamt that I was sitting inside a masjid and a little girl walked up to ask me a question. She asked me: “Why do people have to leave each other?” The question was a personal one, but it seemed clear to me why the question was chosen for me.

I was one to get attached.

Ever since I was a child, this temperament was clear. While other children in preschool could easily recover once their parents left, I could not. My tears, once set in motion, did not stop easily. As I grew up, I learned to become attached to everything around me. From the time I was in first grade, I needed a best friend. As I got older, any fall-out with a friend shattered me. I couldn’t let go of anything.

:: Top 10 Tips on How To Be a Productive Muslim ::

:: 18 Sources of Barakah ::

(Original article here: http://www.productivemuslim.com/18-sources-of-barakah/)

If we were to look for an Islamic definition of Productivity, it can probably be summarised in the word “barakah” or Blessing.

:: Fattabiouni - Layanan Terhadap Isteri Cara Rasulullah S.A.W ::

Salam peeps!

I love love love this Fattabiouni guy.. 

Rasulullah SAW ditanyakan mengenai hal isteri ke atas seorang suami. Baginda SAW menjawab:

“Hendaklah kemu memberinya makan apabila kamu makan, memberinya pakaian apabila kamu berpakaian atau kamu beroleh penghasilan, dan janganlah kamu memukul muka (isteri), jangan memburuk-burukkannya dan jangan memisahkan diri dari mereka kecuali di dalam rumah.”

(Hadits riwayat Abu Daud)

:: Khutbah Terakhir Rasulullah S.A.W ::

Khutbah ini disampaikan pada 9hb Zulhijjah, tahun 10 Hijriah di Lembah Uranah, Gunung Arafah :

"Wahai manusia, dengarlah baik-baik apa yang hendak kukatakan, Aku tidak mengetahui apakah aku dapat bertemu lagi dengan kamu semua selepas tahun ini. Oleh itu dengarlah dengan telti kata-kataku ini dan sampaikanlah ia kepada orang-orang yang tidak dapat hadir disini pada hari ini.

:: Women In The Eyes Of God ::

Another good video by TVSUNNAH.

:: Breastfeeding Is Sunnah ::

Salam fellow mortals..

I've shared this video on my Facebook, because I think this video is brilliant... And since I no longer have a Facebook account, I'm sharing this again here.. For those who have seen this on my wall, good for you. For those who havent, please please watch it.

To those who are passionate about breastfeeding and thinks every mother should breastfeed, be a peer counselor.. CLICK HERE

p/s: Mood for today, ANNOYED!! First, Ziqri couldnt sleep last night and therefore mommy is sleep deprived, then my car key was left inside my locked car, then the traffic to work was shitty. I'm hungry but too lazy to eat. I have my bekal for lunch.. just gonna eat that.. (yes, i bring food from home everyday to save some money) Maybe instead of me trying to understand people, people should try to understand me for a change! I am human too.. Try to open ur heart and listen to my side of the story. 

Take care peeps.. Hope your day is going to better than mine. 

:: 63 Petua Pasangan Bahagia by Dato' Dr Fadzilah Kamsah ::

Perunding motivasi dan keluarga, Datuk Dr Fadzilah Kamsah memberi 63 petua yang boleh dijadikan amalan pasangan suami isteri yang melayari rumah tangga.

1. Doa yang berterusan.

2. Patuh ajaran agama.

3. Murah dengan pujian.

4. Murah dengan khidmat.

5. Murah dengan belaian kasih sayang.

:: Love Her ::

EVERY HUSBAND SHOULD READ THIS:

♥ Love her.. when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you. 

♥ Love her.. when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise). 

♥ Love her.. when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own. 

♥ Love her.. when she is jealous. Out of all the men she can have, she choose you. 

♥ Love her.. when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.